Bullets, massage oils, dildos, vibrators, spanking paddles, blindfolds...the world of sex toys can feel a little bit overwhelming, but that doesn't mean you should hide away from them completely. Whether you're in a long term relationship with the man of your dreams or having a fling that's going great, there's a sex toy to suit your bedroom needs. We asked the experts at Sexshop365.co.uk to reveal their top product picks for the five key relationship milestones. Take a look at their choices in the gallery below... ... More »

Give him a night to remember by forgoing the sexy silk lingerie and putting on your pearls instead. Next time you want to raid the sexy dressing up box stick to sky high heels and plenty of jewellery - it will help to fulfil his rich Las Vegas playgirl fantasy. Use fistfuls of pearls to massage his shoulders and let your giant earring graze his neck, anything to take the experience from ordinary to fabulous daaahhhling! Trust us, he won't care about those jangly bangles when he's staring at the long necklace between your lady lumps... ... More »

If you are struggling to orgasm or just want to have more of them, quicker - try adapting your breathing before or during sex.The name of the game is getting more oxygen into your system to boost your arousal levels and get the blood pumping to those vital orgasm trigger zones. Try taking rapid, shallow breaths in through your nose, keeping your mouth firmly shut. Do this for a couple of minutes and your body will be prepped for toe curling action. TOP 10 FOODS THAT ARE DESTROYING YOUR SEX LIFE...THE SHY GIRLS GUIDE TO GREAT SEX10 IDEAS FOR A GAME OF SEXY TRUTH OR DARE More »

We've been hooked on the exploits of Sookie Stackhouse (played by Anna Paquin) and her vampire boyfriends Bill Compton and Eric Northman for nearly six years (wow how time flies when you're watching vampires, werewolves and fairies fight it out), so it's safe to say we've learnt a lot about life. If you've been hiding under a pop culture rock for the past few years here's basically what you need to know...Vampires have come out of the coffin, everyone in the world knows they exist and they drink synthetic 'True Blood' so they don't have to feed on people. ... More »

So you want him to tie you to the bed, but the idea of forming the words required to make that sentence fill you with dread, right? Sometimes it's not easy to tell your partner all the things you want to try in the bedroom, but there are a few ways to broach the subject without suffering untold humiliation.The trick is to create an open discussion in a relaxed environment, like a night on the sofa watching the TV. ... More »

Spice things up this evening with a game of sexy truth or dares. Write down five sexual questions you want answering and five dares you would like each other to do. This is your chance to take charge and put some fun and excitement into your foreplay. We're sure you're not stuck for ideas - but just in case here are some suggestions to get you inspired...Truths1. Name their number one sexual fantasy2. What is their favourite part of your body? 3. Name the kinkiest thing they've ever done sexually? 4. What is their favourite sexual thing you do together?5. ... More »

Now, we're not suggesting you should cause him any physical pain, but getting your teeth involved when it comes to oral sex isn't necessarily a blow job faux-pas. The 'Pearly Whites' blow job trick is all about using the flat surface of your teeth rather than the sharper edges, which don't feel so good against his sensitive skin. Start by licking your front teeth and tilting your head so you're going at his man-bits sideways. Next, press the flat fronts of your teeth against his shaft and run them up and down his whole length. ... More »

Since Fifty Shades of Grey sex, erotica and bondage have been at the forefront of intimate conversation, but does that mean that us Brits are ready to banish our inner prudes? We sat down with 'Sexpert' Tracey Cox to find out her experiences and opinions - like discussing female ejaculation on morning television! What do you think? Are we a prudish nation or have we woken up with the rise of Fifty Shades?SEX TIP OF THE DAY: BE SPONTANEOUSHOLIDAY SEXUAL HEALTH SURVIVAL GUIDEWHY WOMEN JUST CAN'T RESIST GUITARISTS More »

Once you've unzipped his pants he's pretty much in heaven. Fact. But that doesn't mean you can't bring out the big guns and give him a night to remember. Rhythm and pace should be your two best friends when you go below the belt. So pick yourself a song and follow the beat! 3 WAYS TO GIVE A BETTER BLOW JOBRather than just attacking him and going wild (sexy or weird?) it's worth starting with five slow movements, before shifting to four slow and one fast. Next you'll do three slow and two fast... ... More »

If your sex life consists of a highly organised schedule with a pre-prepared system of foreplay and positions, it's time to bring out your spontaneous side. Nothing will get you stuck in a rut quicker than playing it safe - no matter how good the resulting orgasms are.Here are a few tricks to help you break the mould and put some excitement back into your sex life...1. Make the bedroom out of bounds for the night: When he starts giving you come to bed eyes do everything you can to avoid going there. ... More »

We all know great tongue action is important for a mind-melting blow job, but did you know the underside of your tongue can be stimulating too? The underside of your tongue has a softer texture, which makes it the perfect tool for stroking his frenulum - the super sensitive ridge that runs from the head of his penis down the centre of the shaft. Getting the right angle here is crucial and, lucky for you, this works best in the classic 69 position! Once you're ready to go, grip the base of his penis with one hand and run the underside of your tongue along his shaft from base to tip. ... More »

Forget suction and lip locking when giving a blow job - focus on what your tongue is up to make him go wild with delight. Try flattening your tongue and licking your fella up and down - like you would an ice cream cone. This technique will not only drive him mad - it saves you getting lockjaw. Then play around with the tip of your tongue and discover what he really likes. Swirl the end of your tongue around the tip of his penis, run it down either side and do short little flicks up and down the shaft. Change the speed and pressure and mix up with your usual blow job strategies. ... More »

We know, we know, this Magic Banana sex toy looks like the most horrifying thing in the world, but we promise it will work wonders on your sex life. This nifty little gadget creayed by Canadian yoga expert Janeson Rayne (30 years of research went into this bad boy!) is designed to train your pelvis floor muscles and target the g-spot at the same time. It's been a massive success in the US and now Lovehoney.co.uk have made it available for UK ladies. ... More »