If he's struggling to get things right below the belt, the key is to explain and show him what to do. He's not a mind-reader, so you're going to have to help him figure out what works for you!
One of the easiest and most effective techniques to explain is the Kivin Method - something that was developed by sex therapist Dr Patti Britton.
Basically, it combines oral sex techniques with direct stimulation of the female perineum. Here's how to get it right in your bedroom....
1. Ask him to approach oral sex as he normally would, i.e. by lying between your legs or from a side-on angle.
2. He will need to place two fingers on either side of your clitoris and then use his tongue to sweep back and forth, over and under the clitoral hood rather than directly on the highly sensitive surface.
3. While he's doing this he will need to use the flat of his thumb or finger to apply pressure to the perineum (the patch of skin between your vagina and anus). This stimulates one of the most crucial muscles involved in the female orgasm - the sphincter - and leads to stronger and more pleasurable oral sex.
4. Once you're nearing orgasm, only then should he apply direct stimulation to the clitoris.
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