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    Foetus parties show "commercialisation" of pregnancy, says top midwife

    The country's top midwife has raised concerns about what she described as "the worrying trend towards the commercialisation of pregnancy", such as the increase in "foetus parties". 

    Professor Cathy Warwick, chief executive of the Royal College of Midwives, said many women now had greater expectations and aspirations about childbirth.

    But she warned those who went over the top in celebrating their pregnancy - which she derided as "yummy mummy" or "WAG" parenting - could need intensive counselling if something went wrong before birth.

    Diagnostic scans were often now regarded as "entertainment", she said, which was "a far cry from their original purpose". Private firms were cashing in by offering "VIP" packages for up to £185, she noted.

    Wayne Rooney, the footballer, and his wife Coleen paid £300 to hire a 4D ultrasound scan machine in 2009, inviting over family and friends for the party. She subsequently gave birth to a healthy baby boy called Kai.

    But, writing for the BBC News website's Scrubbing Up column, Prof Warwick argued: "I think the worrying trend towards the commercialisation of pregnancy and trend in 'foetus parties' can add to the burden and can increase the expectation for mothers which midwives then have to deal with.

    [See also: Sex when you're pregnant - yes or no?]


    "There is a worry that supposed diagnostic scans are now being used for entertainment. Across the country services for 'foetus parties' are popping up.

    "There are companies across the country that provide gifts for parties featuring images of the foetus, from a fridge magnet for £3 to a teddy with 3D scan image for £15.

    "Some companies provide a champagne celebration scan package for £165 and a VIP scan package for £185. This is a far cry from the original purpose of ultrasound."

    Prof Warwick said ultrasound was intended to be a screening tool to help detect babies with serious problems and ensure pregnancy management was tailored appropriately.

    "For example, if a baby is found to be growing slowly a decision may be taken to deliver early," Prof Warwick said.

    "However, the trend towards using ultrasound and technology via 'foetus parties' as a 'consumer tool' raises various ethical questions."

    She warned: "If a woman is celebrating much more overtly than she might normally do regarding a pregnancy at an early stage during the pregnancy and then, at a later stage, a serious problem emerges, a mother may need increased counselling."

    Prof Warwick also asked: "What about the foetus? Is this 'yummy mummy' or WAG parenting taken to its absolute zenith and what does it do to the child being 'branded' in this way?"

    Scans are usually taken at 12 and 20 weeks. Most NHS hospitals and maternity clinics only offer the basic form of scan, giving a fuzzy black and white picture. Most parents-to-be are happy with that image, and the early suggestion of what he or she will be like.

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    • jim  •  London, England  •  4 months ago
      Pregnancy and Childbirth should be a personal thing not some kind of "freakshow". Shows the levels these medical diagnostic companies have stooped. Perhaps they should be "named and shamed". Whats next party planners for the birth.
    • LeonE  •  London, England  •  4 months ago
      Ffs. What is wrong with some people?
      • Jane 4 months ago
        My thoughts exactly. Appalling.
    • Angelica The Red  •  Stockport, England  •  4 months ago
      It's marketing ploy by the greetings card industry for the suggestable, it's a saturated market so they have to invent new occasions to celebrate. There's already cards for every possible event, every human relationship and the cat, dog and budgie too so it was only a matter of time.
      • Angelica The Red 4 months ago
        Sigh, tongue in cheek social commentary is so often lost on these boards
    • A Yahoo! User  •  4 months ago
      My God, Foetus Partys.. How sick are some People.. You can acutally Hire NHS Certified Equipment, to throw a Party.. Show Case your Unborn Child to X amonut of People.. Yahoo, you have opend my Eyes on alot of things but this is by Far the worst..

      Its a Sicking Fu**ing World we live in at Times..
      • Private_Pilot 4 months ago
        According to you - and, sadly, you really don't matter very much
      • Libra 4 months ago
        .....according to quite a few people actually & everybody is relevant. who put you in charge!?
    • Arcimboldo  •  London, England  •  4 months ago
      Yuk; When I go to a party I prefer a glass of wine and a cheesy nibble.
    • abby  •  Birmingham, England  •  4 months ago
      THATS JUST WEIRD!!
    • Blackbook  •  4 months ago
      What bothers me is the wannabes who will jump on the bandwagon. Oh I can just hear the cash registers going into overdrive as we speak.
    • Ton  •  York, England  •  4 months ago
      I had a 4d ultrasound with my son primaraly because the sex of the baby couldn't be ascertained from the 20 week scan and I wanted to give my 3 year old daughter as much information and involvement as I could to prepare her for the new arrival. The scan was lovely for her, and made it more 'real' I think. I don't really see the ethical issue with the scan.
      OK, I didn't go and exchange photos with a gaggle of bints over coffee, but I'm not really that way inclined. Each to their own though! There are much less ethical things you can do during pregnancy and beyond.
      • aunty 4 months ago
        Why did you have to tell your daughter the sex, why can't it be a surprise? What would you have told her if you had miscarried? Is there a gender thing going on in your house? Where you say things like, we want a girl, or we're not keen on boys. Do you tell your daughter what she is having for christmas in January? You can certainly involve a child in a pregnancies without having to find out the sex. Also sometimes the scan at 20 wks isn't always accurate, explain that to a 3 year old, or would you then sue the hospital?
      • Ton 4 months ago
        Wow, how incredibly judgemental! Actually I have never been a girly girl, and my daughter isn't particularly either, and I would never say anything like that to her. I really don't understand why you would have a problem with my wanting to know the sex. My daughter's sex was a suprise, but we decided it would seem a more complete picture for her if we could say whether she was having a sister or brother. You may not like that decision, but frankly I can't see why you would have a problem with it. Another reason is that after a traumatic first birth, I didn't feel able to enjoy the suprise of my daughter's sex, and didn't want to feel that way again. Your suggestion that I would sue the hospital is either indicitive of your own lack of sense, or a poorly excecuted joke. Either way, I don't think I'm the one who lacks balance.
      • Joan W 4 months ago
        Ton I think Aunty is a troll
    • everest  •  4 months ago
      I agree, so what if people want to celebrate, people celebrate births, weddings, birthdays etc etc - what's the difference if they want to celebrate seeing their unborn baby? why does this mean they need counselling? So you can't celebrate your child's 3rd birthday because they might get sick when they are 4? Come on!
    • Mary Murphy  •  Warrington, England  •  4 months ago
      dont see what the big fuss is...its a very exciting time and they want to share it :)
    • dotty dora  •  4 months ago
      Professer Warwick is it time you retired. Its the loving intentions behind the actions,that people have these parties. Stop scare mongering. If it does go pear shaped later on well im sure the parents to be are grown up enough to deal with it.
    • ROBERT  •  London, England  •  4 months ago
      Foetus Parties , Hugger Muggers , Bacon Cancer come on whats next.
    • Ginger  •  Edinburgh, Scotland  •  4 months ago
      What sort of idiots are these.
    • Toni Morgan  •  4 months ago
      It may come down to choice but i've been down every road when it comes to pregnancy and everytime I prefer it to be private. its just disturbing.
    • Kerry  •  Brighton, England  •  4 months ago
      I totally agree that ultrasounds should be used for the sole purpose they were created for . .checking the health of the child. Of course by all means take one or two people with you . . most women flash around their scan picture afterwards anyway, but a party is absurd! It's clearly rich people who would do this sort of thing!
    • JOANNE  •  High Wycombe, England  •  4 months ago
      i agree with the midwife after loosing my daughter at 22 weeks...and then having two more miscarriages after the safe 12 weeks. Celebrate when you have your baby in your arms...I wish I could have.
    • caron  •  London, England  •  4 months ago
      I agree with Prof Warwick. Having had a miscarriage before having my daughter, every week of pregnancy should be viewed as a milestone. Don't exploit but just feel blessed you're lucky enough to be able to get pregnant. Keep the celebrating until after the baby is born. And don't even get me started on baby showers!!!
    • Amy  •  4 months ago
      You can bet Myleene Klass will be lurking around the corner as well, with a rattler in one hand and a microphone in the other! She give's me the creep's.
    • A Yahoo! User  •  Reading, England  •  4 months ago
      All too true and things do go wrong in childbirth,leaving mum and dad devestated.
    • secret squirrel  •  Brighton, England  •  4 months ago
      Is nothing sacred anymore..With this stupid celeb culture and stupid women wanting to have the WAG lifestyle,or mimic it.Give me a break grow up,your about to be a mother,have a little dignity...please!!