Dear Lady and The Scamp,
I'm interested in two girls but neither of them knows my feelings. One I work with but I'm worried that if I ask her out it could become difficult at work, especially as my relationships are not always the smoothest. The other is a Facebook friend I don't really know that well - although we have mutual friends. Have you any advice on how to approach these girls in their separate ways?
No. I don't have any advice on how to approach these girls in their separate ways, because most girls won't like to be involved in your insulting spread-betting tactics. In fact, I'm not even giving your email my full attention as I have several other emails that I'm reading at the same time. Does that make you feel special? No? Good. Here's a thought - pick one. Just pick the one you like most, and ask her to go for a drink with you. If she turns you down, then and only then, should you turn your attention to the other one. Girls like to feel important, as