Dear Lady and The Scamp,
I went out with a girl and the first night I spent with her, she said she loved me. The day after I explained that I couldn't have the same feelings for her and that I didn't want to hurt her so we mutually agreed to end it but now I find myself back with her and still have no feelings of love or even lust for her. What I'd like to know is should I end the relationship a second time?
Absolutely not, I think you should get married and then when your children ask you how you fell in love you could say you didn't, you were just looking the other way at the time and then were too polite to leave. I'm being facetious, of course; this is utter madness. I'm not sure who should run screaming from this relationship faster, you or her. You don't save someone's feelings by pretending to want to be with them, you make everything worse and the longer you let it go on, the worse it gets.
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