Dear Lady and the Scamp,
I am in my mid 20s so have had my fair share of dates and girlfriends, but I have been living with a fetish for wearing Lycra since I was about 12. I have no idea why I have it but I have a lot of outfits like shiny leggings and catsuits and love wearing them whenever I can. I've only ever told one ex girlfriend about this and though we stayed together a while, she didn't like it and it was pretty bad for the relationship. I've started dating a girl in the last few months and things are going really well but I feel I need to tell her about the real me, which is that I'm a guy who loves wearing Lycra. How and when should I do this to help her understand and accept this part of my life, or should I always keep it as my secret?
Well Brett, we all have our little foibles that we may omit to mention to our partners - for example, I'm quite a big fan of the pop group Wham! but I don't normally announce it on dates. However, I'm not sure you canRead More »from ‘Should I tell my girlfriend about my fetish?’