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    • Dear Lady and the Scamp,

      I recently started to fancy my friend. We've been meeting up every week and we always say goodbye with a hug. I had just about gained enough courage to ask her out when she told me she was a lesbian. Inside I feel as though a part of me has just gone. But I still have feelings for her. Is this one of those things in life where you have to grin and bear it? Or shall I tell her that I like her even though I know she is a lesbian and see what she says?

      Dean

      Christine says:

      There is about as much point in you telling her you fancy her as there is in me sending a carrier pigeon to Johnny Depp's house with a note saying 'now that you're single, how about it?' In fact there's probably slightly more point in me doing that as although there's more chance of me winning the Euromillions, at least I'm pretty sure he likes women. And hey, you've got to be in it to win it.

      The thing is she didn't say 'I'm confused' or 'I'm bisexual' or even 'you have lovely eyes', she

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    • Dear Lady and the Scamp,

      I really fancy my friend and one night I got the courage to tell her and she was like "oh that's sweet". Our texting then started to get flirtier and the next time we met, she snogged me (no alcohol involved). I was really happy, she was holding my hand and everything. She even called me hot (I don't agree obviously). But since then things slipped back to being friends unfortunately. I texted her to try and find out if she did ever or does fancy me and she said no. I really like her, advise me please!

      Duncan

      Kevin says:
      You know those people who give out free cheese samples in supermarkets? You remind me of them. Not the people, but the cheese.

      I think your lovely friend has spotted the chance of some freebie canoodling and snapped it up. A try before you buy. But she's keeping her money in her pocket.

      Whenever I eat cheese handed out by supermarket people, I always compliment them on the taste of the cheese. It's because I feel a bit guilty about getting free

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    • Dear Lady and the Scamp,

      I'm in long-distance-relationship with a guy from a chat site. I really don't think he lies about anything and we share pictures a lot. We talk every weekday, never on weekends. But he always avoids me when I ask him to chat on camera, or to come to my country. Should I take him seriously?
      Nath

      Christine says:

      Should you take him seriously? Well, it depends what you want out of this relationship. If you just want to talk 'on weekdays', look at pictures of him (if they are of him) and chat online then this sounds ideal! If you want more than that, then this guy sounds like a nightmare.

      I would start to worry if I wanted to chat to a guy on camera and they didn't. Men normally quite like that because they don't have to move. You have to ask yourself why he doesn't want to. There could be several reasons

      1.) He's completely genuine, but the wallpaper in his house is terrible. It was left over from the last people that lived there and he is very embarrassed about

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    • Should you be gifting your exes?I have been with my boyfriend for four years. We don't live together, we fight very often and most of the time it's over his ex-girlfriends. He is in touch with all of them. He says they are his good friends: he does favours for them, buys stuff for them and get them gifts. He hides all his activities from me and he has no answer when I find out and confront him. What do you think? I want to be with him, he says he loves me and not them but I will never be able to fully trust him. I do not want his past in his present. Shall I end this relationship?

      Nat

      Kevin says…

      It's difficult to answer these questions sometimes because you only get one side of the story. Based on the information you've given, this dude sounds like he is in the Top Three Worst Boyfriends in the World (along with Silvio Berlusconi and Phil Mitchell). And I'm left with a distinct impression he is having sex with all of his ex-girlfriends, while having similar arguments with them too.

      But it's a bit unfair of me to

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    • Dear Lady and The Scamp,

      I was seeing a girl for about four months but then she decided to wanted to take it back a bit - so we still meet up occasionally but just as friends hooking up. I want it to be more but I'm concerned that we've fallen into the 'friend zone'. I've confronted her but she said she's not ready for anything more than friends hooking up. Should I move on?

      Mike

      Kevin says:

      I don't think your problem is being in the 'friend zone'. It's more about being in the "I don't want to go out with you" zone. If you tell someone you want to be their boyfriend and they say "no, thanks" then that doesn't leave you much room for manoeuvre. You're using this 'friend zone' business as an excuse to deflect from the possibly upsetting truth: It's Over. Yes, sorry. Go on, have a cry. You'll feel better about it afterwards.

      And anyway, you're not even in the 'friend zone' because you're still hooking up. Do you snog all your friends? I certainly don't, unless they're asleep.

      The 'friend

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