Dear Lady and The Scamp,
I need help. I have been in a relationship for like four years. We have had times we quarrelled for months without any means of communication, then decided it was over. But one thing led to another and we begin dating again. The issue is that I am short-tempered and the lady is a professional cheat and highly unfaithful. We have been making it look like it will end in marriage but her acts make me feel I need a more decent woman to call a wife. She dates and sleeps around only to come back and tell me and say sorry. The issue is that I want something better but it is very hard to quit.
This sounds lovely. When's the wedding? I suppose at least you both know your flaws. I can't work out if you're short tempered because she cheats on you, or if you're such a grouch that it makes her seek out the company of other happy upbeat men. Either way this relationship sounds about as healthy as a McDonalds triple pounder - you think it's what you want