Despite my occasionally questionable dating behaviour I do try to be honest with girls wherever possible, but sometimes the truth is just too harsh to utter, and an alternative plan is required. That was the case with Jen - a lovely girl whom I got on really well with but lost interest in shortly after we had sex.
The truth in this instance was that, having seen and caressed her naked body, I didn't find her as sexually appealing as, prior to the sex, I hoped I might. It was akin to desperately craving a KFC, gobbling it down like a farmyard animal and then being filled with bloated remorse as you wiped the greasy remnants from your fingers with a limp tissue.
But who would want to be told that?!
The alternative in this instance was, well…let me explain.
I imagine this is a nightmare scenario for a girl: you meet a guy, like him, get to know him better before sleeping with him, then sleep with him, like him even more… and then he never wants to see you again.
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