Recently an old friend of mine started flirting on Facebook. Both of us are married with kids (although I am separated from my husband) but it quickly escalated to flirty texts and the odd phone call... and finally we spent the night together. Not long after, he made it clear he wasn't going to let it go any further. I agreed but then last week he suggested we meet up again. The thing is, I really do like him. How do I handle the situation without risking us falling out again?
Ah Facebook, it's got a lot to answer for. It's not just used for looking up old acquaintances and going 'ooh they've got fat'. It's also for looking up old acquaintances and going 'ooh I've always quite fancied them, I wonder if they're up for a secret fumble behind my wife's back?'.
I think it's pretty obvious what he wants and it's not just a chat about the old days. He wants a bit of titillation away from his marriage, bored of conversations about packed lunches and whose turn it is toRead More »from Facebook exes – when poking isn’t enough